SOUTHWEST ASIA (AFPN) -- Being deployed can be a challenge but here are a few tips that can make the experience more enjoyable.
Display a positive attitude.
Whenever we’re in public, people are watching our every move. We don’t have to say one word to communicate with those around us; our attitude is constantly on display.
Think about how many times you could predict the type of mood a family member or friend was in just by watching their actions. Also, think about how their attitude changed your mood. If they were happy, you were, too. If they were in a bad mood, it negatively affected you.
We are no different; our attitude affects those around us as well. Remember, we’re being watched by our peers, subordinates and supervisors and it’s our duty to be a positive and encouraging force for them.
Maintain self-control at all times.
The quickest way to lose the respect of others is to get upset and lose our self-control. I’ve witnessed people go into a fit of rage after someone did something wrong. It didn’t matter if it was a mistake or done on purpose. The supervisor would say and do things they shouldn’t. After they’ve calmed down, the supervisor would sometimes return to apologize, but it didn’t matter. The damage was done. It can take a long time for people to trust someone who cannot control their temper.
Let’s face it, we all make mistakes, but how we handle them can be a true indicator of our leadership potential. If we are to lead our troops, we have to set a positive example at all times. Maintaining self-control separates the true leaders from those still in training.
Don’t complain if you don’t have a viable solution.
No one wants to be around someone that constantly complains. I’ve had to remind myself no matter how bad I think I have it, there are others worse off than I am. After this thought sinks in, I realize things aren’t as bad as I once thought they were.
My challenge to you is to make the best of every situation, get involved in activities on base, further your education and pursue some of the goals you couldn’t find the time to do back at your home station.
By following these tips, everyone around us benefits and our working environment is a much better place to be.