Defense secretary calls losses 'painful, personal'

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  • By Donna Miles
  • American Forces Press Service
CAMP H.M. SMITH, Hawaii (AFPN) --  Of all the challenges he confronts at the helm of the Defense Department, Defense Secretary Robert M. Gates said one of the most difficult for him is writing condolence letters to families who have lost a loved one in the war on terrorism. 

"I feel very strongly about the families of every (servicemember) who is killed in Iraq or Afghanistan," Secretary Gates told reporters May 31 during a media roundtable at U.S. Pacific Command headquarters here.

Speaking on the last day of a particularly difficult month for U.S. forces in terms of troops killed, Secretary Gates said he feels each and every loss.

"It is very painful. It is very personal," he said. "It is why I handwrite notes on each of the letters (to families), because I want them to know that each and every one of them is important to me, important to the president."

Secretary Gates said the Defense Department is sympathetic to families' losses and is "deeply grateful" for their support and sacrifices. "We feel them very personally as well."

In the face of these losses, the secretary said he's encouraged to see that the troops remain committed to the mission in the terror war, despite the potential risks. He noted that for the first time in the country's history since the Revolutionary War, it is fighting a war with an all-volunteer force.

"These young men and women in uniform who are fighting in Afghanistan and Iraq are fighting there because they believe in what they are doing," he said. "And we have the greatest admiration for their willingness to serve and their willingness, as they know, potentially to have a personal sacrifice."

Secretary Gates met personally May 31 with servicemembers and civilians based here to thank them for their service and their continued commitment. A Sailor who attended the brief session summed up the message he took away from Secretary Gates' troop talk as "Keep charging."

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